Ray J Shares Bizarre Theory About Why He Wasn’t Invited to a Diddy ‘Freak Off’

Singer Ray J made a bizarre statement about Sean ‘Diddy’ Combs and his “freak off” parties during a recent live stream, claiming he wasn’t invited to events because of his appearance.

As many know, Diddy was arrested in September 2024 and then tried in 2025, during which he was convicted of two counts of transportation for the purpose of prostitution.

During one of his live streams, Ray J talked about his appearance and said that he thought that was the reason he didn’t get an invite to Diddy’s “freak offs.”

“Just like when they keep talking about the ‘freak offs’ with Diddy, I’m like you’ve never been invited to the ‘freak offs,’ and that’s when it hit me, I’m ugly,” he said. “It struck me that I’m not attractive.”

Ray J’s comments come just three months after the disgraced rapper was sentenced to 50 months in prison for violating the Mann Act. At his trial in the summer of 2025, victims involved in Diddy’s “freak offs”, including his ex-girlfriend Cassie Ventura and a male escortexplained how being involved in drug-filled orgies affected them.

According to The explosionOn the stand, Cassie recalled the first time Diddy asked her to have sex with another man. “I was 22 at the time, my stomach was in knots, I had no idea how this would turn me on, but I accepted responsibility,” she said. “I was confused, nervous, but I also loved him very much and wanted to make him happy.”

Cassie explained that she was opposed to the idea of ​​participating in the “freak offs”, but that she went along to make Diddy happy. The “Me & U” singer also hinted that she felt forced to adopt them, saying, “At one point I felt like I didn’t really have a choice.”

During her poignant testimony, Cassie said she had no time or space to do anything other than star in “freak offs”.

“Staying out for days, doing drugs and alcohol, having sex with a stranger,” she said. “It lasted 36, 48, 72 hours, the longest was four days.”

Cassie, 39, described feeling “disgusting” and “humiliated” after taking part in the sexual acts. “I didn’t have the words to show how horrible I felt. I couldn’t talk to anyone about it,” she recalls.

She also remembers questioning her reality due to the amount of drugs she was using. “I was so high I didn’t feel much,” she said. “Did that really happen to me? I didn’t know what was going to happen after that, if we had to do it more frequently, I said yes to more, I didn’t want to upset him or make him angry.”

While incarcerated at FCI Fort Dix in New Jersey, Diddy filed numerous appeals while making public statements about his time behind bars through his attorney.

The explosion reported on his latest decision, which involved delisting his Beverly Hills mansion more than a year after listing it.

Property 90210 was the center of public attention in March 2024 following a Homeland Security raid, during which various firearms were located inside the home, according to NBC News.